The 3-3-3 rule. The Phases of Adjustment

Adrienne Donofrio • August 7, 2025

The 3-3-3 rule is a guideline to help families understand the phases your rescue dog will go through as they adjust to their new home. Knowing and setting realistic expectations will help avoid unsuccessful adoptions.

Kimmys highly recommends professional dog training to help deal with common rescue behavior issues.

· First 3 days: your dog might feel overwhelmed and anxious in their new environment. They very well might be exhausted and as a result sleep longer than normal. They may be shy or timid, and it’s essential to be patient during this period. This period is often the first time your new rescue dog may experience the safety and warmth of a foster home, laying the groundwork for a positive association with their new owners. It’s a critical time for setting a general guideline on what to expect in terms of behavior and comfort.

· First 3 weeks: This is the time your dog starts to feel comfortable with their new routine. They may become more comfortable with their surroundings and start exploring. This is also when some behavior issues may develop. As your rescue dog adjusts, they will start to reveal their personality and disposition, possibly showing signs of behavior issues that were not evident during in the beginning. This phase is a great time for new dog owners to introduce their new friend to more structured activities like longer walks.

· First 3 months: By 3 months you can expect to see your dog’s true personality. They should be more comfortable, less stressed and settled into their new life, making it an ideal time to establish training and bonding routines. This stage solidifies the true bond between you and your rescue dog


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HIRE A PRO FOR A SUCCESSFULL ADOPTION

By Adrienne Donofrio • August 7, 2025
Hiring a professional dog trainer for your rescue can be a fantastic investment in your dog's well-being and your relationship with them. Here are some reasons why it might be a good idea and what to consider: Benefits of Hiring a Professional Dog Trainer Expertise : Professional trainers have the experience and knowledge to address a wide range of behavioral issues and training needs. They can tailor their approach to your dog's specific problems and personality. Consistency : A trainer can help you establish consistent training routines and techniques, which are crucial for effective behavior modification and learning. Customized Training Plans : Every dog is different. Trainers can develop a personalized plan based on your dog's behavior, needs, and your goals, ensuring that the training is relevant and effective. Behavioral Issues : If your rescue has specific behavioral challenges, such as fearfulness, aggression, or separation anxiety, a professional can provide targeted strategies and support to address these issues. Positive Reinforcement : Many professional trainers use positive reinforcement techniques that can help build trust and strengthen the bond between you and your dog. Education for Owners : Trainers can educate you on proper handling techniques, body language interpretation, and ways to encourage good behavior, empowering you to manage your dog's behavior effectively. Socialization : If your rescue needs socialization with other dogs, people, or different environments, a trainer can guide you on how to introduce these experiences safely and positively.

Adoption Fees? Cost of Care

By Adrienne Donofrio • August 7, 2025
We are often asked why rescues charge adoption fees. Adoption fees for animals at Kimmys Save Haven cover a range of expenses to ensure the animals are healthy and ready for their new homes. Here's a breakdown of what these fees cover: 1. Medical Care: This includes vaccinations, spaying/neutering, microchipping, and sometimes treatment for any illnesses or injuries the animal may have had. 2. Preventive Care: Costs for flea/tick prevention, deworming, and other preventive treatments. 3. Behavioral Assessments: in some cases, we will assess the animal’s behavior to ensure they are placed in a suitable home. 4. Food and Supplies: The cost of food, bedding, toys, and other supplies needed while the animal is in the rescue’s care. 5. Administrative Costs: This includes the costs of running the organization, such as utilities, and office supplies. 6. Facility Costs: If the rescue has a physical facility, adoption fees help cover utilities, and maintenance. 7. Transport: If the animal was transported from another location or is being transported to its new home, these fees might be included. Kimmys is a registered nonprofit organization. All fees are applied to keeping our animals safe and healthy util they find their forever homes

Fear Verses Aggression-Know the Difference

By Adrienne Donofrio • August 7, 2025
Dog aggressive behavior and fear behavior can sometimes look similar but are driven by different emotions and motivations. With professional assistance issues can be corrected or controlled. Understanding the distinction is crucial for addressing and managing these behaviors effectively. Aggressive Behavior  Motivation : Typically stems from a dog’s desire to assert dominance, protect territory, or respond to perceived threats. It can be a proactive stance to establish control or dominance. Signs : Growling, snarling, snapping, lunging, and biting. Aggressive behavior is often accompanied by a stiff body posture, direct eye contact, and a raised tail. The dog may show signs of frustration or anger. Context : Aggression often occurs in situations where the dog feels challenged or threatened, but the behavior is more about asserting control rather than retreating or avoiding. Examples : Territorial aggression, possessive aggression (e.g., over food or toys), and social aggression (e.g., towards unfamiliar dogs or people). Fear Behavior Motivation : Driven by a dog’s desire to avoid a perceived threat or danger. Fearful behavior is a reaction to something the dog finds frightening or threatening. Signs : Cowering, trembling, panting, hiding, and avoiding eye contact. The dog may also tuck its tail, try to make itself small, or try to escape from the situation. Context : Fear behavior usually happens when the dog is exposed to something it finds frightening or overwhelming. It’s often more about avoidance and self-protection rather than confrontation. Examples : Fear of loud noises, new environments, unfamiliar people or animals, and other stress-inducing situations. Key Differences Emotional Drive : Aggression is often about control or dominance, while fear is about avoidance and self-preservation. Body Language : Aggressive dogs might appear more rigid and confrontational, whereas fearful dogs often display submissive or anxious body language. Response Strategy : Aggressive behavior involves confronting or challenging the perceived threat, while fear behavior involves retreating or avoiding it. In practice, a dog might exhibit both fear and aggression in different contexts or even simultaneously. For example, a dog might become aggressive if it feels cornered and cannot escape, indicating that fear is underlying the aggression. Properly addressing these behaviors typically involves understanding the root cause and working with a professional trainer or behaviorist to implement a management and training plan tailored to the dog’s specific needs .